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Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Is Love really enough?

By the past few weeks I've been wondering why there where so many things happening in my "love life". People who are surrounding me keep asking is love really enough? Then I ask them, are you contented with just love?

Lately, I'm starting to ask those questions to myself. Is there really such things as contentment? Do people who are in a relationship really satisfy each other? Do they give the security their partners needed? When is d time for us to say "let's stop this?" Based on my experience(at least a 9 months relationship) we really need to secure our partners, so as we. We all needed to be love to be secure that our partners only belong to us and there is no number 2. We all need to be aware of that.

After answering my friend's weird question. I believe that we need to LOVE OUR SELF, BEFORE LOVING SOMEONE ELSE. It's true we need to satisfy the hunger feeling of love inside us. But no matter how many effort your partner willing to give(or at least they gave) to you there will always be an empty space of you that people around you can't fill. If you don't love yourself  there will be a time that how many partners you have, how many people love you. You will always have that doubt that "its not enough".

Loving yourself is better to be done first before getting in to a relationship. In case, you break up with him/her you still have the 10% of yourself and not letting that person destroy the 1005 of you.

Love yourself. It's not a must, but as what other people say "prevention is better than cure"




s.u.p.e.r.j.m.r.a.m.o.s

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